PLAY

Nights

Welcome to the Play Night!

One Thursday a month, we open House of Play to explore, connect, play, and practice in an open and held space. 

This is an evening where we can practice some of the things we learn at workshops, get inspiration for new types of play, and play with our favorite styles within kink and ropes,  all in the warm and inviting atmosphere of House of Play.  

Each Play Night starts with a welcome circle, consent practice, and slow connection games, before transitioning into an open space for play and connection. All exercises are invitations and we encourage everyone to participate within their boundaries.

We aim to create a dedicated, warm, curious and inclusive space, where we can learn from each other and feel empowered to find new ways of playing and being together. We seek to make this space a special container, separated from our daily routines, and free from constricting societal norms we experience in the outside world. Everything is welcome and nothing is expected

Our facilitators will offer guidance and inspiration, and make sure that the space is held and keeps the collective intentions.  We hope that you will join us for a night filled with connection, intimacy, and conscious sexuality.

What to wear

There is no strict dress code, but we encourage everyone to make an effort to create a lovely atmosphere in the room. Wear something which you feel good in, and supports your personal sexual expression.  Please do not come in your street clothes. No shoes in the play space. 

Time

18.30 You can arrive to get changed and meet the people you’ll be sharing the evening with. Please come early as we start the opening circle on time and you cannot arrive later!

19.00-20.00 Facilitated opening  

20.00-21.45 Open Play Space

21.45-22.00 Joined Closing of the space

22.00 Play space closes, you can still land in the lounge and say goodbye

Bring

If you have tools to play with, please bring them. We have a limited amount of tools you can borrow.

A water bottle with a lid - no open containers in the play space

Can I join as a beginner?

It is possible to join the Play Night both as beginners and experienced; we believe everyone can get inspired and learn from these evenings. Typically we have a good mix of newbies and seasoned players in this space. However if it is your very first time in this kind of setting, you are always welcome to reach out to us and we can guide you to your needs.

Can I come alone?

You can come alone, with a partner, as a trio or in a group. We can never guarantee that you will find someone to play with as a single, but the warm up exercises offer invitations to connect with people. The exercises are often practical, physical, and hands-on. To provide a wide variety of experiences, we frequently invite you to do exercises in different combinations with different people. These can be same-gender or mixed-gender, and we encourage you to be open to working with any gender and person during the exercises since it is our experience that this gives the best possibilities for collective co-creation and flow. You may choose to only play with your partner(s) if that is what you prefer. 


Code of conduct

Before showing up to any of our activities, please make sure to read and follow the House of Play Code of Conduct, found on our website.

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